While praying today, July 27.2007, I told God I was ripe for some wisdom on how to deal with anger. I kept telling Steve, 'there must be a trick to it. I know there's a trick to it'. I GOT IT!!! Instead of feeling like they are attacking ME, turn it around and see how they are attacking themSELVES. cause....what goes around comes around. What we sow, we shall reap. Karma. WHATEVER you want to call it. It's STILL GOD'S law! The Bible says 'pray for those who despitefully use you', and 'pray for your enemies'. HOWEVER someone acts, is what they WILL receive at some time in their life. I know this to be a FACT, cause I just had this experience with a gal I had just met and we invited them to our house for dinner. I gave her something very valuable which she took, and she turned around and said she was going to trash it. She was a WITCH. That is how I USED to act. So I reaped what I sowed years ago. So, when people are mean to me, I will do my best to remember they are being mean to themselves, not to me. LOL THIS is the answer to 'turn the other cheek'. If we are unoffendable, it's easy to turn the other cheek. I hope to become unoffendable in my lifetime. Back Demodex mite shampoo