Very basic things a man must do, qualities a man must have, to be in my life. IOW, my 'man' list of qualities. This is in no particular order, as you will see. The list for S is below it. This must be accomplished before we can get back together IF we ever do.
Above all, he must love God and he must have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. One that can be measured by what he does and how he acts.
He must be emotionally available.
He must put things away, tools he uses, clothes, food after he's done with it.
He must keep the walkways free of blockages, i.e., take care of me and my needs.
He must be kind, considerate and think of others
He must have a good work ethic, both at home and at work
He must NOT lie about anything
He must have friends
He must pay attention to me, what I say, what I'm talking about. Not every second, but a general attitude of interest.
He must be interested in ME, my dreams, my thoughts.
He must not assume He knows everything, He must be curious, He must ask 'why'
He must be interested in people to some degree.
He must be a caring person
He must be able to start and carry a conversation
He must be interested in sex and be good at it
He must be able to fix things, such as holes in walls, pool sweepers, spa stuff, hinges
He must be loving
He MUST, above all else, have a good sense of humor, be funloving, have a sense of fun
He must have a good-paying job
He must be a mature, responsible, adult that pays his bills on time
He must give responses
He must be able to take care of himself, cook, do laundry.
He must like tHe outdoors
He must be aware of his surroundings
He must be protective of me, in all ways
He must respect me and not be afraid of me
He must have had at least 2 serious, long term relationships in his life
He must have interests that are his own, that are not alone type things. No role playing games, but things that involve otHer people
He must be intelligent WITH COMMON SENSE
He must be willing to be around a strong woman, He must be strong on his own and be confident in who He is and Who He belongs too.
He must be courteous and thoughtful.
He must be interested in putting his faith into action in SOMETHING.
And taking care of me wHen I'm sick is a MUST.
THese things are normal, everyday things that most people are. If a person was raised by conscientious, loving caregivers, they will have these attributes. If they were not they will have made changes in their lives to become these things.
Bottom line: I want a man who is responsible, conscientious, sexual and God centered. A man with integrity. And I won't settle for less.
And at least as tall as me. 5'6.5 If He's musical, that's a plus. No more than 5 years younger than me. Color of skin doesn't matter. Bald or not doesn't matter. No more than 30# overweight.
LIST FOR S:
Be sexual, no sex, no marriage.
Emotionally available
Get counseling for issues:
Work with inner Healing and deliverance counselors
ALWAYS clean up after himself