Very basic things a man must do, qualities a man must have, to be in my life. IOW, my 'man' list of qualities. This is in no particular order, as you will see. The list for S is below it. This must be accomplished before we can get back together IF we ever do.

Above all, he must love God and he must have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. One that can be measured by what he does and how he acts.

He must put things away, tools he uses, clothes, food after he's done with it.

he must keep the walkways free of blockages

he must be kind, considerate and think of others

He must have a good work ethic, both at home and at work

He must NOT lie about anything

He must have friends

he must pay attention to me, what I say, what I'm talking about. Not every second, but a general attitude of interest.

he must be interested in ME, in my dreams, in my thoughts.

he must ask 'why'

he must be interested in people to some degree

he must be a caring person

he must be able to start and carry a conversation

he must be interested in sex and be good at it

he must be able to fix things, such as holes in walls, pool sweepers, spa stuff, hinges

he must be loving

he MUST, above all else, have a good sense of humor, be funloving, have a sense of fun

He must have a good-paying job

He must be a mature, responsible, adult that pays his bills on time

He must give responses

He must be able to take care of himself, cook, do laundry.

He must like the outdoors

He must be aware of his surroundings

He must be protective of me, in all ways

He must respect me and not be afraid of me

he must have had at least 2 serious, long term relationships in his life

he must have interests that are his own, that are not alone type things. No role playing games, but things that involve other people

he must be intelligent WITH COMMON SENSE

he must be willing to be around a strong woman, he must be strong on his own and be confident in who he is and Who he belongs too.

He must be courteous and thoughtful.

He must be interested in putting his faith into action in SOMETHING.

And taking care of me when I'm sick is a MUST.

These things are normal, everyday things that most people are. If a person was raised by conscientious, loving caregivers, they will have these attributes. If they were not they will have made changes in their lives to become these things.

Bottom line: I want a man who is responsible, conscientious, sexual and God centered. A man with integrity. And I won't settle for less.

Looks dept. I am attracted to dark haired men, with dark eyes, or grey hair and dark eyes. I prefer a man with meat on his bones, no more than 30 lbs overweight. I am attracted to butts and legs. No skinny men allowed. Muscles, yes, body builder-no. I like bald men, men with hair. I like men of any color. And at least as tall as me. 5'6.5 If he's musical, that's a plus.

LIST FOR S:

Be sexual, no sex, no marriage.
Get counseling for:
           Self, sex issues, rage issues
           Work with inner healing and deliverance counselors


ALWAYS clean up his messes, never leaving anything where neighbors can see it.